It happens that we find it very difficult to forgive the person who did wrong to us, on the contrary we take it to our Ego that how dare he did wrong to me, I will do the same to him so that I can calm myself.
Can you really calm yourself after doing something wrong to that person who did wrong to you? can you really calm yourself with a heart contaminated with a virus called REVENGE? May be that person didn’t do anything intentionally? It might happen accidentally . May be now that fellow is felling guilty. But you are burning from inside. You just want to harm that person and Forgiveness seems to be like a cancelled note, torn in two and burnt up, so that it can never be used .
Some says that I can forgive, but i cannot forget – and it is just another way of saying, “I will not forgive”.
It takes nothing from a strong person to say sorry, and an ever stronger person to forgive.
Try to forgive, try to forget and you will be the utmost happy person of the whole world. Have you ever forgiven anyone who did wrong to you, if not please try it once and the volume of happiness that you will have, will be endless.
Just try it once.
Writer – Varun Porwal Source – Speakingtree.in