There is only one Happiness in Life… Love and be Loved – 4


Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.
~ Erich Fromm

Life is the flower of which love is the honey.
~ Jean Baptiste Alphonse Karr

Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself.
 ~ Leo Buscaglia

Love is much like a wild rose, beautiful and calm, but willing to draw blood in its defense.
Mark A. Overby

Love is the true means by which the world is enjoyed:
our love to others, and others’ love to us.
~ Thomas Trahern

Find the person who will love you because of your differences and
not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.
~ Leo Buscaglia

Romance has been elegantly defined as the offspring of fiction and love.
~ Benjamin Disraeli

Think about it, there must be higher love,
Down in the heart or hidden in the stars above,
Without it, life is a wasted time,
Look inside your heart, I’ll look inside mine.
~ Steve Winwood


Be Happy

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Stay Happy

The question of how to be happy everyday may be a little difficult to answer, but as always said, happiness is a choice and you can definitely learn how to be happy everyday. Here are some ways to help you remind yourself to stay happy every single day.

  • Stay away from things that make you unhappy and from people that have negative influences in your life.
  • Wake up every morning by giving thanks – for the bright sunrise, for a great breakfast, or for a good night sleep. Cultivate the habit of being thankful – for great friends or for favors done to you, however small they may be.
  • Think positive – Do not think of what you do not have but learn to appreciate whatever you have. Eliminate self-doubt and think that you can overcome difficulties in life.
  • Do not let anything ruin your happy day – If you are faced with a difficult situation at work, do not let it ruin your day. Find ways to fix it. If some people make you mad, win the battle by not giving in to anger. Truly, learning how to be happy everyday is your choice.
  • Meditate – This will help you manage stress and take charge of your life. Stress can make you irritable or annoyed. It can even put your health at risk. Get rid of stress to help you face tomorrow with a happy smile.
  • Understand and respect other people – One great source of the many unhappiness in life is our difficulty to accept our differences. If we see something that we do not like, we seemed to be irritated. Understanding the people around you and why they act that way will help you get rid of negative feelings.
  • Do something good for others – Doing something good is indeed one of the best ways to feel good about yourself and be happy. One source of happiness in this world indeed comes from being a blessing to others.
  • Watch your words – Learn to be positive with your words – whether it is for yourself or for others. This will keep you from hurting people and avoiding trouble.
  • Smile – A smile can truly radiate a positive energy to the people around you and to you as well. Greeting the people with a smile on your face is also one best way to looking good.
  • Give and share – The magic of giving is not just about feeling good to be able to give and share to those who need your help. It is also in giving that you receive more blessings.
  • Have a good laugh – Learning how to be happy everyday could just be as simple as having a good laugh. Eliminate boredom and sadness in life by sharing a good laugh with your friends or family. Go out with friends who talk about hobbies and travels and share light stories and not talking about other people’s lives. Choose to talk with your co-workers about something that is pleasant – your dream places or destination or hobbies and sports.
  • Eat healthy – This will spare you from any discomfort and pain. Take note too that it is easier to be happy if you are healthy.

Learning how to be happy everyday can be easy if you choose to be happy. If someone gives you a reason to get angry, it is actually your choice to get angry or not. So stay in control. Think about being happy – always.

Writer – Carolyn Anderson Source –

The Garbage Law

Life’s too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. Love the people who treat you right.
Forget about the ones who don’t. Believe that everything happens for a reason.
Never let the garbage truck run over you.

Source – Nubia Group

Plan Your Happiness

Being in a positive and inspired state of mind most of the time is a skill. It requires focus, determination, work, persistence and above all the willingness to do whatever it takes no matter what.

Being inspired is a choice. Being unhappy is a choice. Being productive is a choice. Being miserable is a choice. If you do nothing, you get what most people get: a mixed bag of daily experience filled with inspiration, unhappiness, productivity and misery.

If you make a decision to be consistently inspired, consistently productive, consistently happy and take it like any skill you have learned in life like driving, or cooking, or playing guitar you can be a master of it. You don’t become a skilled guitar player by admiring Mark Knopfler once in a while, you don’t become a star employee by just hanging about in office, and you don’t achieve mental emotional mastery by just doing random things in life. You decide, make plans, work towards it each day, and eliminate all obstacles on the way.

Being happy is not complicated. But you have to realize the mind boggling obvious: it’s something you have to commit to. Happiness is not a state of mind that we catch from the ether, nor is it a lottery some people are born with. It is something we either earn through realization of our worthy goals, or something we feel when we focus on the right stimuli (a sunset, a laughing baby, great music), or something we experience when we are in presence of the right people. Being happy is not complicated but being consistently happy is what requires work and planning.

Plan your happiness. Do what needs to be done. Remember, only a happy person can make someone else happy. Don’t be so lazy that you can’t even be happy. You owe it to your friends, family, loved ones and above all else: yourself.

Writer – Shafin de Zane Source –

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